Working with a Life Coach Part One


Several of you have asked me what it is like to work with a Life Coach.  So, I decided to share my notes with you from 3 sessions with my Life Coach.  (These are just my notes – my “nuggets of wisdom” I wanted to take away from each session and my A-ha moments.)

Understand, I am a Life Coach myself and am really good at self-coaching and working through my thoughts.  

BUT, it is amazing how someone who is not inside your own head can help you shed light on what your brain is really telling you.

It is truly a transformational experience for me.  So good. I hope this helps you, too.

Session #1:

Urges: Don’t
Resist
Avoid
React

Do:
Allow


It requires a lot of effort to change.
I am still trying to be perfect… not obtainable
Need to be ok with discomfort


Neural Pathway in my brain – need to form a new one to create a new habit
Easier to do what you know
I have a lot of self judgment

Need to…
It’s ok to be me.
Practice self love
Being ok with who i am


Personify my discomfort:
My friend discomfort… here he is again.
Call my emotions my friends.


Unintentional Model:
C my food
T a cupcake would nice
F desire
A go to store, buy cupcakes, eat 3 when I get home
R give in to the desire

Intentional Model:
C my food
T I can feel any emotion & still stay on my plan.
F self-confident
A allow discomfort,  be better at allowing urges,
R A commitment to myself


Homework
Find solutions for obstacles:
Lack of structure in summer
Pool time leads to sugar time
Perfectionism – self judgment (who am I?)

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